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The Recovery Road doesn't always end in 'Opposite' - sometimes it's just a rest stop.
Our final growth destination isn’t always the opposite of where we started – it’s somewhere in the 'Middle Zone'. We're just better equipped

Jen Stover
Oct 25, 20236 min read


A description of Vulnerability that men can relate to
The word 'vulnerability' can make some men cringe. But here's an additional definition that they can relate to.

Jen Stover
Aug 30, 20235 min read


The Difference between Emotional Suppression, Reinforcement and Non-Response
Emotional non-response is often confused with emotional suppression.But I now understand how different they really are

Jen Stover
Aug 11, 202311 min read


Relationship repair - don't let this phrase get in the way
I cringe a bit now as I type these words, remembering how unknowingly naive I was early in my personal growth. And I blew connection by...

Jen Stover
Aug 7, 20234 min read


What no one told me about Emotional Self-Regulation
I used to believe that all we could do was manage the emotions we had. But there's so much more we can do...

Jen Stover
Jun 23, 20235 min read


Is it time for a 13th EQ competency? - Is emotional self-regulation really enough?
When is it time to go beyond just regulating our emotions?

Jen Stover
Jun 23, 20236 min read


Moving beyond Emotional Regulation - what does it take?
What does it takes to develop your emotional state, instead of just manage it?

Jen Stover
Jun 23, 20238 min read


How a trip to Nepal highlighted 3 Key Elements of Emotional Development
While trekking in Nepal, I got deeper understanding of what it really takes for our brains and bodies to adopt new patterns.

Jen Stover
Jun 2, 202310 min read


3 Ways to foster Improved Work-Life Balance
3 ways we can evolve how we work. Understanding the neuroscience of our work-life relationship, while getting anxiety relief and avoiding bu

Jen Stover
Apr 25, 20237 min read


The Art of Transition. How to be brave when life gets really uncomfortable.
Transition is felt in our bodies. It's the sensation we feel when something familiar, known and relatively certain has come to an end.

Jen Stover
Apr 18, 202311 min read


What our Response to world news teaches us about Trauma Recovery
It’s emotionally upsetting to watch inappropriate behavior in others, Why? Because it can really stir up own still-resolving trauma.

Jen Stover
Apr 12, 20233 min read


An unintended Mistake couples make that can completely BLOW Connection...
An innocent mistake couples can make in early growth stages

Jen Stover
Apr 10, 20233 min read


The 4-word trauma recovery strategy I learned from long-distance trail running
A 4-word strategy that helped me stick with my recovery work for more than 7 years. Find out what it is.

Jen Stover
Apr 7, 20237 min read


An online sales strategy that needs to STOP - Let me show you why.
A new perspective on words like “Value”, “Investment” and “Price" and a vision for the future of the personal development world.

Jen Stover
Apr 5, 20234 min read


Why is Self-Discovery work so important?
Why do some coaches tell you that 'talk therapy’ is bad for you? While others say 'making sense of your past' through talk is essential?

Jen Stover
Mar 6, 20234 min read


What some people misunderstand about Emotional Intelligence
What often gets misunderstood about developing Emotional Intelligence (EQ)

Jen Stover
Nov 11, 20224 min read


2 STRATEGIES far more effective than Anger (especially if you want lasting change)
Anger feels good in the moment and gets us moving. But these 2 strategies help us to STAY moving long enough to see lasting change.

Jen Stover
Oct 14, 20224 min read


How to train yourself to think more flexibly
Today, I want share a simple practice for developing mental flexibility — which is a skill that can greatly enhance your life experience by

Jen Stover
Oct 14, 20228 min read


‘Healing’ summed up in 2 words
An approachable description of two words frequently used in personal growth - Integration and Complement.

Jen Stover
Oct 7, 20226 min read


9 POINTS — that quickly describe how our Internal State directs who we pick as partners
a succinct description of how the state of our emotional response influences our relational behavior.

Jen Stover
Sep 26, 20225 min read


When ‘surrounding yourself with like-minded people’ can backfire.
Social media ‘gurus’ tell you to find “your tribe” or surround yourself with “like-minded people”. This could become a problem long-term.

Jen Stover
Sep 9, 20225 min read


4 Physiology-based Tips for Increasing MOTIVATION
Four strategies I like to use to stoke motivation when I need it, or keep the motivation ‘juice’ going for longer periods of time.

Jen Stover
Apr 13, 20224 min read


Forgiveness - the reason it's so hard may be different than you think
The reason it's so hard to forgive may be different than you think.

Jen Stover
Feb 11, 202215 min read


To Attach or Not to Attach? - that is the question
There’s seems to be a lot of confusion about ‘attachment’, dependency and a misinterpretation of Buddhist philosophy when it comes to...

Jen Stover
Feb 2, 20225 min read
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