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The Language of Attachment

What you will learn in this FREE 24-page downloadable book

• Attachment theory fundamentals

• Attachment styles

• Tools for each style

• Language strategy for expressing needs

• Approach strategy for supportive interaction

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Let's Pause

A simple monthly ritual for couples who want to maintain (or establish) a deeper connection to their partner

It can be so hard to find a "good time" to discuss hard things. And after the 'honeymoon' phase wears off, sometimes we forget to acknowledge the things we love about our partners and want to see more of. And if we aren't careful appreciation, respect and that bond that you symbolized with that beautiful ceremony can start to erode.

These 15 questions and an hour of your time just once a month is the solution.

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75 Language Examples for Difficult Conversations

Words that UNIFY people who are different

Have you ever just wished for some examples of what to say for some of your more challenging conversations? Not many of us learned strong communication skills growing up. Yet, in every aspect of our lives, words - or the language we use to get our point across - can make or break the success of our interactions.

Becoming sustainably grounded in moderate emotion (so we can use our whole-brain)

The ability to think flexibly (so we can see and consider more possibility )

And language skills (so we can express ourselves in collaborative and unifying ways)

In order to optimize differences between people who think and view the world differently, and find the common ground that unifies differing approaches or viewpoints, requires the following: